Average Jane vs. Her Hair

I got a lot of early grey hair genes from my dad’s side of the family.  I remember visiting my 30-something cousins when I was a kid and discovering that they all had grey hair.

Thus, I’m not surprised that I am getting more and more grey hair myself, but I have to say that I’m not exactly enjoying it.  For one thing, it’s bad timing that I’m really enjoying a dark hair color right now.  That means I have to keep up with the color touch-ups lest I end up with a skunk stripe down my part.  Okay, it’s not that bad yet, but there’s definitely silver hair shining through.

The other thing that’s been weird is how different the texture of my hair has become.  I’ve always had fairly straight hair, but all the hidden grey is making my hair a lot more wavy and voluminous (and frizzy).  I’m fairly indifferent about hair styling, but now I have to make at least a little effort to keep my hair under control.  I often fall back on the old pony tail – that is, when I can find a pony tail holder that the cats haven’t stolen.

Tonight I have a long-overdue appointment for a cut and color.  I procrastinated on making the appointment until I already had grey peeking through, then discovered that my hair stylist was booked up and/or on vacation until now. 

I’m getting a little tired of my hairstyle, but I’m not sure what can be done about it.  I like my hair long and bangs are a non-negotiable must, but the rest of the style seems awfully…conservative.  Maybe I can throw myself on my stylist’s mercy and see if she can think of anything more interesting to do.  If I sound as though I’m crying in tomorrow’s post, you’ll know why.

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9 responses to “Average Jane vs. Her Hair”

  1. schmutzie Avatar

    My hair’s going the same way. I am about 20% grey now, and what used to be fine and relatively limp hair now likes to stand out from my head and go it’s own direction. I’ve started using “men’s” pommade to glue it down.

  2. Huts Avatar

    My wife points out my few grey hairs sticking out. I know I have grey hairs, after awhile I prefer to not have every single one pointed out to me.

  3. Kelli Avatar

    Don’t feel too bad…I found my first gray hair on my 19th BIRTHDAY (I’m 27 now)! Talk about depressing! It hasn’t increased really. I’ve only found about 10 since then…I feel your pain man!

  4. annie Avatar

    Nothing scarier than giving a stylist free reign. I’ll have my fingers crossed for you.

  5. AWE Avatar

    You could always shave it like me. It cuts down on the gray hairs.

  6. Suzanne Avatar

    I’m curious: why are bangs a non-negotiable must? 🙂

  7. Jane Avatar

    Suzanne – I have forehead issues. I’ve tried going without bangs, but I can’t deal with the expanse of forehead that’s revealed without them. 😉

  8. Pharmgirl Avatar

    A) you don’t have a big forehead
    B) BOTOX!

  9. The Necklace Lady Avatar

    I’m 48 and have 100% gray hair, dyed brown. I’ve always worn it short until recently. DH decided that he would really like to see me with long hair. I let it grow and now have to use Bed Head control freak and a MaxiGlide iron to keep it from frizzing out of control. The brown hair of my younger days of beautiful and shiny and not at all frizzy. Ugh… I hate this gray hair.

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