Author: Average Jane

  • Average Jane’s Hotel-Influenced Purchases

    One of my favorite things about my three-night hotel stay last weekend was the showerhead in the bathroom. Unlike the much-hated one I have at home, it rinsed my hair quickly and thoroughly. Naturally, I made a note of what kind it was and ordered the brushed nickel version for my own bathroom.

    As I did so, it occurred to me that this is far from the first time I’ve been inspired to buy something after a hotel stay. The toiletries provided at the Hotel Roosevelt in Los Angeles led me to become a die-hard Fresh fan. I now use their shampoo, conditioner, lotion and shower gel.

    A stay at a Ritz-Carlton several years ago made me understand what the big deal was about high thread-count sheets. I didn’t buy theirs, but I’ve since gotten a couple of perfectly nice sets at Target.

    Growing up in the lower reaches of the middle class, I wasn’t really exposed to much in the way of luxury. I’ll never understand the appeal of designer clothes, shoes or handbags, but I do appreciate the way the premium items I’ve mentioned above make life more pleasant and comfortable.

    I imagine that I’m not the only business traveler who’s been influenced this way. My room last weekend also included a Sleep Number bed, which I liked very much once I figured out on the second night that it was adjustable, and softened it up a bit from the 100 setting. The marketing there wasn’t so subtle – there was a card on the bedside table offering a discount for purchasing one.

    Despite the fact that I’m in the market for a new bed, that’s too much of a splurge for me. However, I’ll bet some people are taking the bait. I’m actually surprised that other premium bed companies don’t partner with hotels.

    Have you ever bought something you first discovered in a hotel? What was it?

  • Average Jane Feels Like Walking

    Wow, was I impressed with the Breast Cancer 3-Day walk I witnessed in Chicago this weekend. There were more than 2,300 walkers who raised a total of $6.1 million. And that’s just the first walk out of 14 this season.

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    I flew into Chicago with two other members of the PR team on Thursday. We made our way to the staging site in time to see the rehearsal for opening ceremonies and pick up the car we’d be using for the weekend.

    The opening presentation was extremely moving. Even though it was only a practice, all of us got a bit teary-eyed.

    As this was my first Breast Cancer 3-Day event and they’re generally handled by two-person teams, I decided to give myself the role of unofficial photographer. You can see the majority of the photos here. I also drove as needed so that the team leads could make media calls and navigate from one stop to the next.

    On Friday morning, the day the walk began, I set my cell phone alarm for 4:00 a.m. and met the team at 4:45 a.m. to go to the opening ceremonies location at a suburban mall. While my colleagues worked to coordinate interviews, etc., I walked around and captured photos of the walkers and their supporters arriving and settling in.

    The opening ceremonies were just as moving the second time around, and we stayed and watched as all the walkers filed out and began their 60-mile journey.

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    The walkers pass through numerous pit stops, "grab-n-go" beverage stops and cheering stations before and after their lunch stop. They end up at a campsite that includes a huge dining tent, and a "main street" of sponsored amenities, a gear shop (where I bought myself a much-needed hat) and an event information center. There are also truck-mounted showers, a stretching area, a medical tent, and a flagpole in the center of camp that remains bare until the last walker arrives each day.

    We spent each day following the walkers to various stops, meeting up with members of the press, and ending up at camp for the after-dinner information session and show.

    The coordination involved in routing and caring for the walkers is nothing short of amazing. That doesn’t even count all the training and fundraising support they get before they even arrive.

    It didn’t take long before I started feeling the urge to sign up for the walk next year. Even when I saw the walkers at their lowest ebb on Saturday, I still envisioned myself out walking with the group in some interesting city (since the event won’t be held in Kansas City next year). The fact that many of the tired, stiff-legged walkers turned into dancing machines at the Saturday evening dance party was heartening as well.

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    As inspiring as the opening ceremonies were, the closing ceremonies were even more so. When the walkers who are breast cancer survivors filed in, the other walkers each held up one shoe in tribute. I realize that sounds a little odd when you’re just reading about it, but the symbolism was very powerful in person.

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    I’ve been very fortunate that no one in my family has ever suffered from breast cancer (although other cancers have taken their toll). Still, I have met enough breast cancer survivors over the years to have a strong interest in making sure they all remain healthy.

    If anyone is interested in forming a team and picking a city for 2009, let me know. We’d have plenty of time to train and fundraise ($2,300 each) between now and the time of the walk. Even as an observer, I could tell that the walk was the kind of experience people remember for a lifetime. Who’s up for a challenge?

  • Average Jane is Back in Town

    Just popping in to say "hello" after my four-day business trip to Chicago. I didn’t get home from the airport until after 10:00 p.m. last night and I’m heading into work now, so I’ll post a write-up of the event tomorrow.

    The winner of last week’s giveaway of Sleep is for the Weak is Calee from Sacred and the Profane. Congratulations, Calee!

  • Average Jane Leaves for a Business Trip

    I’m headed to Chicago tomorrow as part of the public relations team for the Breast Cancer 3-Day walk. I ended up buying an entire wardrobe for the trip consisting of cotton capri pants, white sneakers and various types of hot-pink shirts that I will probably never wear again.

    My husband has the whole house to himself until Sunday night. Well, almost all to himself.

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  • Win A Book from Average Jane!

    Okay, this is the last of my random giveaways of books I bought too many copies of. (Don’t you love the way I put my English degree to such good use?)

    This week’s giveaway book is "Sleep is for the Weak: The best of the mommybloggers including Amalah, Finslippy, Fussy, Woulda Coulda Shoulda, Mom-101, and more." I ended up buying three copies: one for me, one for my sister and one…for no good reason I could think of once I got three. Just supporting the team, I guess.

    So my over-ordering is your opportunity! To enter, just leave a comment on this post. I’ll choose a winner next Monday.

    Also, keep an eye out for your favorite parenting bloggers from the book at signings in various cities throughout the rest of the summer and fall.

  • Average Jane’s Drivin’ Around Music

    All summer long, I’ve been buying songs from iTunes and combining them with music I already had to create mix CDs to listen to in my car. Since a few people have been asking me about my musical tastes, here are my Summer 2008 mixes so far:

    Disc 1:
    Megalomaniac – KMFDM
    Symphony of Destruction – Megadeth
    Hold On – Korn
    Side of a Bullet – Nickelback
    Ten Thousand Fists – Disturbed
    Breath – Breaking Benjamin
    Walk – Pantera
    Engel – Rammstein
    How Long – Hinder
    Painkiller – Judas Priest
    Happy With What You Have To Be Happy With – King Crimson
    Blackout in the Red Room – Love/Hate
    Stuntman – 24/7 Spyz
    You Could Be Mine – Guns N Roses
    Animals – Nickelback

    Disc 2:
    All My Life – Foo Fighters
    Heading Out To the Highway – Judas Priest
    Shine Down – Godsmack
    Peace Sells – Megadeth
    Last Resort – Papa Roach
    Stupify – Disturbed
    The Stone – Ashes Divide
    Psycho – Puddle of Mudd
    Hell Yeah – Rev Theory
    Heroes – Shinedown
    The Trooper – Iron Maiden
    Sikamikanico – Red Hot Chili Peppers
    Almost Honest – Megadeth
    Fire – Scooter
    Down With the Ship (Slight Return) – Scatterbrain

    Disc 3:
    Cult of Personality – Living Colour
    Famous – Puddle of Mudd
    Hold On – Korn
    Before I Forget – Slipknot
    Under the Bridge – Red Hot Chili Peppers
    Animal I Have Become – Three Days Grace
    When I’m Gone – 3 Doors Down
    Everlong – Foo Fighters
    Fire – Jimi Hendrix
    Between the Hammer & the Anvil – Judas Priest
    Nothing Else Matters – Metallica
    Mona Lisa Smiles – Jane Child
    Trigger Happy Jack – Poe

    My tastes aren’t 100% hard rock, but that’s what I like to listen to when I’m driving, especially in nice weather. Any suggestions of what I could buy with my remaining $10.17 of iTunes credit?

  • Average Jane Gets Annoyed

    The concert I went to last night required a lot of endurance. It was so hot that I sweated completely through my shirt. It was so crowded that there was no way to leave my spot for the duration to buy a bottle of water or a t-shirt. People kept rudely pushing past us to get to the front; many of these people were shirtless and sweaty, which made the experience a number of degrees less pleasant. Still, I endured.

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    My breaking point was the crowd surfers. If you don’t know what crowd surfing is, it involves hoisting a person
    into the air and passing them forward toward the stage over the heads
    of the audience. The surfers do this willingly; the audience members’ main goal is to get the surfers away from them as quickly as possible.

    The first one got my attention by landing on my head and shattering my last good pair of sunglasses. I was watching the show (naturally), so I didn’t realize that someone had launched a woman into the air from behind me until I felt my sunglasses snap in half on top of my head. She may have received a bruise or two on the way by me.

    The last straw was the one who kicked me in the head on her way by, despite my efforts to avoid her. Later I learned that she’d managed to kick my husband in the face, which explained why he looked so cranky toward the end of the show.

    Between those two examples of head and neck trauma and the ringing ears my husband and I both still had when we woke up this morning, our next summer concert is likely to involve a DVD, surround sound, and the couch in our living room.

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    This week’s book winner is Sharon of The Hokey Pokey IS What It’s All About. Congrats!

  • Average Jane Makes It To Friday

    I am happy beyond measure that it’s Friday and I’m almost, kinda, semi-caught up on work. Barring any surprises, I should be able to pare down my to-do list to a manageable level by this afternoon.

    My incentive to do so is the tickets I have to see Judas Priest, Jackyl and Drowning Pool tonight. It’s going to be hard to find a parking place and ridiculously hot and humid outside, but I’m really looking forward to the show.

    I don’t have much in the way of weekend plans, but I hope to work in a yoga class and some clothes shopping for next weekend’s Breast Cancer 3-Day in Chicago. I’ll be there as a PR representative and I need to wear something a little preppier than my usual jeans and t-shirts.

    What other unfinished blog business do I have? Oh, there’s a new post of mine up on MidLife Bloggers. Also it’s not too late to comment on Monday’s post to be entered to win a copy of A TV Guide to Life: How I Learned Everything I Needed to Know by Watching Television by Jeff Alexander. I’ll choose the lucky recipient on Saturday.

    Have a lovely Friday!

  • Average Jane, Interviewed

    I decided to give the Citizen of the Month Great Interview Experiment another shot. The last time around, I never received any interview questions and the ones I provided to my interviewee were only up on her blog for a day or so before they vanished.

    These are the questions I received from Mandy of The Gratton Grapevine:

    1. When did you know that music was a way you had to express yourself?
    I’ve been singing in bands since I was a teenager, but I think I really started understanding the self-expression aspect of music when I started writing lyrics. I found that lyric writing brought out parts of my personality that I’d generally kept to myself until then.

    2. What has been the best musical experience (either performance or audience) you’ve had?

    No particular experience stands out for me as a performer. I’ve seen so many great concerts that it’s hard to choose one, but I think the last time I saw Yes was particularly memorable. They played a lot of their classic material that was probably completely unfamiliar to a good percentage of the concert-goers, but was a rare treat for me.

    3. You have three cats. What, in your mind, are the fundamental differences between cat people and dog people?
    Cat people like their freedom. When you have a dog, there’s always some sort of interaction going on and there’s no way you can go somewhere after work or leave for a vacation without making dog plans. With a cat, you can leave for a few days and as long as you’ve left big bowls of food and water (and the toilet lid up for good measure), the cat will hardly notice you’re gone. Yes, cats can be needy and want attention, but they’re not as insistent about it as dogs.

    4. Obviously, you love to cook. If you had only one day left, describe your last three meals (breakfast, lunch, dinner) and/or libations that would accompany them.
    Assuming I’m cooking these meals for myself, here’s what I’d make:

    • Breakfast – Bacon, scrambled eggs with cheddar cheese and multi-grain toast with butter. Drinks: Coffee (if I’m going to croak, never mind the acid reflux!) and pineapple-orange juice.
    • Lunch – Minestrone soup, homemade Italian bread with butter, salad with balsamic vinaigrette dressing and cheesecake with cherries for dessert. Drink: Gnarly Head Old Vine Zinfandel
    • Dinner – Grilled steak, green beans with Greek dressing, baked potato with butter, sour cream, cheese, onion and bacon bits. Drink: Guinness Stout

    5. Aside from adding to your ugly 70s decor collection, what other bargains do you love to shop for?
    My online shopping addiction consists almost entirely of t-shirts and books. The $10 sales at Threadless are nearly irresistible for me and I sometimes get a little embarrassed by the frequency with which Amazon packages appear on my doorstep.

    6. What would be the perfect outing with your niece and nephew?
    We’d go out to lunch somewhere mutually agreeable (Red Robin, perhaps) and then head to the zoo to see as many animals as possible before we all got tired. We’d take the zoo train back to the front gate rather than walk, and on the way home we’d stop for frozen custard. If it weren’t so hot and humid out right now, I’d make that happen this weekend!

    7. What question do you wish I’d asked?
    "So what are you going to do with the $1 million prize that accompanies this interview?"

    I’ll be interviewing Mama Ginger Tree from Adventures in the Candycane Forest after I’ve had a chance to become more familiar with her blog. So far, I know that she was at BlogHer, yet I didn’t meet her there. By weird coincidence, I just ran across her on Twitter today in the course of my social media monitoring at work. That’s the small world of the blogosphere for you.

  • No Sleep for Average Jane

    Insomnia sucks. I’ve been waking up every couple of hours throughout the night for the last couple of weeks. If I sleep under the covers, I get hot. If I sleep on top of the covers, I get cold. I wake up because I’m thirsty, get a drink of water, and then later I wake up again because I have to pee.

    Fortunately, my husband stays up all night, so he’s neither a contributor to, nor annoyed by, my dysfunctional sleeping habits. That is, unless he decides to go to bed early some nights, but by then I’m usually so tired that I don’t even notice the snoring.

    The wild cards in the situation are the three cats in the bed. Velcro sleeps on me, so she has to settle down and get comfortable again every time I toss and turn. Velvet gets excited that someone might be available to pet her, so I’m likely to feel her raspy tongue on my hand if I happen to stretch out my arm in her direction. Only Xena, who prefers the end of the bed (often under the covers), sleeps soundly no matter what I do.

    I’m really swamped at work (still playing post-vacation catchup), which is probably the main reason my brain can’t seem to gear down when I’m trying to rest. When I have my wits about me, I can do some breathing and relaxation exercises to drop back to sleep. Unfortunately, that doesn’t always occur to me right away at 3 a.m.

    I have another minimally-scheduled weekend coming up, so if I can just get my workload under control, there’s hope that I can sleep and nap my way back to a normal schedule. Just in time to leave for a business trip to Chicago next week. Well, at least I’m not changing time zones again…