Category: BlogHer

  • Average Jane Prepares for BlogHer

    So who’s going to the BlogHer Conference in San Francisco this year?

    I went in 2005, 2006 and 2007, so you’d think I’d be all organized and ready to go already, even though the event is more than a week away. Ha!

    The one thing I’ve done is purchased some jeans that actually fit. I thought it would be nice to be able to think about something other than my waistband while mingling with the 999 other attendees this year. I’m trying very hard not to think about what size those jeans were. The new exercise regimen begins when I get back from SF.

    Next on my list is business cards. I made some rather cool ones last year, then turned around and changed my e-mail address almost immediately. Of course, this year I’ll want to include my Twitter ID, so I would have had to update them anyway.

    My idea is to make 3" x 5" cards featuring a variety of different recipes I’ve already published here. I’ll set them up like a postcards with my blog and contact information on one side and a recipe on the other. It’s going to be a challenge because I don’t have much in the way of page layout software anymore.

    The pre-conference guide has good packing ideas. I wouldn’t have thought of bringing one of my reusable water bottles. On the other hand, there’s that intimidating "prepare your personal pitch" thing. I’ve never been one for elevator speeches, but I’ll do my best to think of something halfway decent before I meet anyone new.

    I think I’m going sans laptop again this year. I hate carrying the thing around all day, and I think it’s more important for me to meet and talk to people than to breathlessly update the world about what I’m doing each day. Besides, I’ll have the BlackBerry and Twitter for that.

    This year’s conference is shaping up to be a really great one: parties, book signings, great sessions, and lots of opportunities to reconnect with all the people I’ve met at previous conferences. Nine days and counting down…

  • Average Jane’s Letter To Her Body

    Have you been following BlogHer’s Letter To My Body initiative? I’m finding people’s thoughts about body image fascinating. Here’s my letter:

    Dear Body,

    We’ve had a good run so far, and although I haven’t always treated you as well as I might have, I feel as though I’m starting to get a handle on how you work best.

    I’m especially sorry about the whole caffeine thing – you tried to tell me to quit, but I ignored you until neither one of us could take the suffering anymore. At least I figured out how much you enjoy yogurt and fruit for breakfast. Do I get any points for that?

    I’ve been trying to make a habit of other things you like: yoga, massages, chiropractor visits, and flat-soled shoes. I haven’t made you wear pantyhose in a really long time. I know I wore high-heeled shoes twice last week, but I swear we’ll take care of the aftermath in yoga class this week.

    Don’t take it personally when I’m a little dismayed at the measurement of my waist and thighs. I’m well aware that my DNA is responsible for that. I know my mother blamed hers on pregnancy, but as the child-free control group in my genetic line, I can disprove that theory once and for all.

    I’m not even really worried how I look carrying these extra pounds – I just don’t want to have to buy bigger jeans, because I’m cheap that way.

    Genetics are responsible for quite a few of the things about you that I might be inclined to complain about, but because they weren’t really surprises, it seems counterproductive to worry about them. You won’t find me "correcting" anything that was part of the standard package – well, except for the terrible eyesight I got from my dad.

    I know you could use more exercise, but as we’re both averse to spending time outside in the cold, it’ll just have to wait until spring. There’s a 5k and a 13-miler that I’d like to do this year, but I promise to train you beforehand. In the meantime, I’ll do my best to get back to three yoga classes per week.

    Now that I’m getting older, I must apologize for the times I was lax with sunscreen earlier. If I could go back in time, I’d tell my younger self to put sunscreen on her hands every time she went outside.

    I appreciate that you always bounce back despite the hours and hours I spend hunched over a computer keyboard or slouched in front of the TV. I’ll keep working on culling things from my diet that you don’t like and adding the things you do.

    Thanks for everything so far,

    Average Jane

  • Average Jane’s Going to BlogHer!

    I have about five minutes before band practice, so I figured I’d check in to report that I’m officially registered for BlogHer ’08. Naturally, I didn’t want to break my 100% streak, so this’ll be my fourth one.

    I know Liz is going. She’s the first person I met when I arrived at the very first BlogHer Conference in 2005. I’m rooming with Rita again, as I did at Blogher ’06. We’re planning another late Saturday night wind-down watching nature shows in our room.

    Are you going to be there? Let me know!

    If you’re attending any other social media conference(s), let me know that, too. I may very well attend more than one this year. I have a short list, but I’d like to hear what everyone else thinks is valuable.

    One of our guitarists is here…gotta go!

  • Average Jane’s Belated BlogHer Wrap-Up

    Okay, I finally have an evening free (with one eye on the Chiefs game) to go through all the cards of the people I met in Chicago at BlogHer. Here they are, in the order in which they appeared in the huge, messy pile I plucked from my suitcase:

    1. Lady M
    2. Jazz Brown from The Finery Shop
    3. Count Mockula
    4. Jane of ByJane
    5. Georgia of I Am Bossy
    6. Dave Coustan from Earthlink
    7. Filmmaker Laurie Kahn-Everett
    8. Jessica from Wise Bread
    9. Kristen from Motherhood Uncensored (her "card" is a condom on a stick)
    10. David Wescott from APCO Worldwide
    11. Laura Bennett of Embrace Pet Insurance (I’ve already guest posted on their blog since then!)
    12. Solo Mom from Sanity and the Solo Mom
    13. Kim of Scrambled CAKE
    14. Jessica of Chirky
    15. Stacey from Mom Central Consulting
    16. Shannon of ThreeSeven.ca and Hitched!
    17. Either Mindy or Marie Helene of PearSoup.com
    18. Val Jones, M.D. of Revolution Health
    19. Katharine from The Women’s International Perspective
    20. Claudia from Holy Fruit Salad
    21. Elsa Seefahrt
    22. Birdie from La Pajaro
    23. Stacey Kannenberg of Cedar Valley Publishing
    24. Lawyer Mama
    25. Charlene from Maya’s Mom
    26. Liza from LesbianFamily.org (I got a "Friend of the Family" sticker)
    27. Lindsay from Suburban Turmoil
    28. Erika from Plain Jane Mom
    29. Jen from The Imperfect Mom
    30. Amy of Assertagirl
    31. Mary Tsao, Mommyblogger Extraordinaire
    32. Susie Sunshine
    33. Laurie from Sk*rt (Sk*rt is awesome! Check it out!)
    34. PunditMom
    35. Tired Mummy
    36. Robyn of Who’s the Boss??
    37. Scott Adler from BabyCenter
    38. Elizabeth of Table4Five, MomReviews and MomCooks
    39. Casey of Moosh in Indy
    40. Kristie from Slacker-Moms-R-Us
    41. Lisa of Midwestern Mommy
    42. Melissa from Keeping Track of the Insanity
    43. Melina of Ellinetha
    44. Kimberly of Petroville
    45. Katie of Life, the Universe and Everything
    46. Suzanne of CUSS
    47. Des
    48. Meglauver
    49. Susan Getgood
    50. N.F. Hill from BuildPeace and Secondana
    51. Blondie of Tales from Clark Street
    52. Risa of StyleFool
    53. Kris from IndieBloggers (which I’ve since joined) and I’m not a girl, not yet a wino
    54. Catherine of Her Bad Mother
    55. Someone from Mominatrix Radio
    56. Metro Mama
    57. Kyran of Notes to Self
    58. Gwen Bell
    59. Elena Perez of Associated Content
    60. Amy of Mum’s the Wurd and Chicago Moms Blog
    61. Krisco of Crib Ceiling
    62. Amy of Southern Fried
    63. Liz Henry of Book Maniac
    64. Carleen from Beauty and Fashion Tech
    65. Carey of Holtzbrinck Publishers
    66. Glenyse of Style Goddess
    67. Carrisa of Carrisa Blog
    68. Hola, Isabel!
    69. Tara Anderson from Lijit (you’ll notice my Lijit wijit on the right)
    70. Gina of Terralina (awesome skin care products!)
    71. Laurie of Not Just About Cancer
    72. Joy from Joy of Six

    Then there was everyone I’ve already mentioned (some of whom I’ve just mentioned again merely because their cards were in the pile). Of course, I met a certain number of people whose cards I’ve already lost, etc. Hello again if I’ve overlooked you!

    My next step is to add everyone’s feed to my Bloglines list. Maybe that can wait until tomorrow…

    It was nice to meet all of you and I look forward to reading your blogs and, I hope, meeting you all again in the future.

  • Average Jane is Back from BlogHer

    My brain is so full from the past few days that I don’t know what it’ll take to dislodge a memory or two to chronicle the event.

    I had a great time, particularly meeting so many of the bloggers I read and also ones I’ve met at previous years’ conferences. I went to some great sessions and really enjoyed both the planned activities and the ones I sought out on my own.

    I haven’t had time to go through all of the business cards and swag I collected, nor have I dumped my photos to my computer yet. I’ll try to put together a more comprehensive post soon, but it may have to wait until the weekend because I’m leaving for Los Angeles tomorrow morning and I won’t be back until Thursday.

    I’m headed to work to cram in as much productivity as possible today, but here’s a quick shout-out to some of the friends with whom I spent much of the weekend:

    That doesn’t even count all of the other lovely people I met and dined with, but that comprehensive list of links will have to wait until I’ve tackled the 100+ business cards I collected.

    I was disappointed that I never ran into Yvonne from Lip-Sticking, even though I know she was there. That can happen when you put almost 800 people in a convention center, I guess.

    Okay, it’s time I made myself semi-presentable for work. More later, I promise.

  • Average Jane Leaves for BlogHer

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    My flight is about six hours from now, and Xena is helping me pack. (Isn’t she getting big!)

    I ended up cancelling my evening plans yesterday due to sheer exhaustion. Instead, I took a short nap, made myself some business cards, and took another stab at the mounds of laundry.

    Now I just need to finish packing, shower, buy some more Airborne at the drug store in case my suspicion that I’m fighting off a cold is actually true, and head to my credit union for some traveling money.

    Oh, and I’m going into work this morning for a few hours. I don’t know what drove me to that genius decision, but at least I’ll be a bit closer to the airport there than I would have been at home.

    If you’re headed to BlogHer yourself, have a good trip and I’ll see you this afternoon or evening.

  • Average Jane in 10 Seconds

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    I’m leaving for BlogHer in just a few days, so per the advice of Mocha Momma, here’s 10 seconds (or so) worth of the Average Jane basics for anyone I might meet while I’m there:

    • I’ve been blogging since 2004.
    • I’ve attended every BlogHer conference so far.
    • I’ve been married for almost 13 years and we have three cats.
    • My real job is as an interactive copywriter at an advertising agency.
    • On the side, I am the lyricist and vocalist for an original metal band, as well as the vocalist for a classic rock cover band.
    • You should be able to recognize me this year by the blue streaks in my hair.

    I’m really looking forward to this year’s conference. Leave a comment if you’re going!

    blogme2007

  • Average Jane Pouts at Home

    Many of my blogging buddies are in New York City today at BlogHer Business. I wish I were there, too! Learn something new and cool about social media and share it with me later, please!

    I’m going to do my best to keep up with the conference via the blog entries of the presenters and attendees, but that’s really no substitute for face-to-face interaction.

    Fortunately, I’ll see everyone at in Chicago at BlogHer ’07 in July.

  • Average Jane at Blogher, Day 2

    On Saturday morning, I woke up a few minutes before 7 a.m. and decided there way no way I was in any shape to do yoga.  Thus, I dragged my mat and yoga clothing all the way to San Jose for nothing.

    I did get up in time to have breakfast and make it to that day’s opening session.  It started with a PowerPoint presentation about the conference and its participants, but for some reason the sound didn’t work.  That was okay, because the crowd launched into "All You Need is Love" and sang until the visuals ended.

    That day’s primary sponsor was Microsoft, plugging a remedial blogging product called Windows Live Spaces.  They launched into the most tone-deaf, off-base sales pitch I have ever witnessed.  Two "bloggers" from a home improvement site on Live Spaces came up on stage, and one look at their excessively teased hair, matching t-shirts and skinny jeans caused a look of extreme wariness to wash across every face in the audience.  The women did a chirpy, rehearsed spiel about how blogging and home improvement are, like, awesome, and not scary at all!

    Keep in mind that almost everyone in the audience already blogs and some have online writing and community experience dating back to Usenet.  The people at my table listened politely for about a minute, then resumed their conversations until it was over.

    Fortunately, the following segment featured great stories by real bloggers talking about how their blogs are changing their world.

    I attended a good session about using blogs to help commercial ventures, then spent most of the lunch break chatting with Jaime Minturn from Blog Talk Radio.  After that, it was on to the Business Blog Case Studies session, where I was one of the presenters on the "unpanel."  I’m looking forward to seeing the report that Susan Getgood is putting together from the results of the session.

    During the break, I had the chance to discuss parts of my presentation with Christopher Carfi and Tish Grier

    The final session I attended was Next Level Naked, which was a discussion about how much of yourself you reveal on your blog and when it’s necessary or appropriate to alter what you’re willing to discuss.  During this session, I learned that the tall guy in the Gaping Void t-shirt that I’d been seeing around the conference toting a video camera was Robert Scoble.  If his wife hadn’t been on the panel, I might never have known.

    The closing keynote was good, but I got there just as it was starting and was thus seated really far away from the speakers.  After that ended, I went to the cocktail party, had one round of appetizers before they ran out, and drank water all evening, foregoing the Yahootinis.

    I met lots of fascinating people, many of whom I didn’t manage to work into my narrative at the proper points.  Here are some of the stragglers:  Lisa Brewer Canter, Sarah of Sarah and the Goon Squad, Nancy from Mom Ma’am Me, Kalyn Denny, Kristin from Crib Ceiling, Jenn from Mommy Needs Coffee, Jenny from Three Kid Circus, Ken Kato, Grace Davis, Shawn from Imperfect Magic, and Debra from A Stitch in Time.  I also got a chance to chat with Lakshmi Pratury from Tamarind Grove twice on Saturday.

    At the end of the evening, as things were wrapping up, I talked briefly with all three Blogher founders.  Lisa Stone liked my new blog idea and urged me to join the Blogher Ad Network. She also remembered that my blog and quote were among those featured in the opening presentation for last year’s conference.  Heck, I barely remembered that!  Jory Des Jardins revealed that next year’s conference will be in Chicago, much to my delight.  I saw Elisa Camahort for just a moment, but had the chance to touch base about her Rockstar: Supernova recaps that I’m enjoying so much.

    All in all, it was a great experience and I’ll definitely plan to go to
    next year’s conference in Chicago (and possibly to the Blogher Business
    conference in New York).

    Okay, that’s enough name dropping and Blogher blather for this year.  As of Monday, I will resume the usual pedestrian descriptions of my non-work life.  Have a great weekend!

  • Average Jane’s First Day at Blogher ’06

    I woke up ridiculously early on Friday morning, so I found the conference center, got my badge and goodie bag, and hung around the food and drinks table until it was properly loaded with caffeine, pastries and fruit.  Once I was fortified with Starbucks and blueberry Danish, I went back to my room and dropped off about ten pounds of schwag so that the bag wouldn’t eventually kill me as I carried it around all day.

    Before the opening session, I ran into Liz Rizzo from Everyday Goddess, who happens to be the first person I met at Blogher last year.  She immediately had someone take a picture of us, which turned out to be the most flattering photo of me that I’ve seen from the whole conference.

    After the introduction, I stayed where I was for the Primp Your Blog workshop.  It wasn’t quite as technically detailed as I’d hoped (there were too many different blog platforms to cover), but it gave me a lot of good ideas for checking out Typepad and Blogger’s latest widgets and add-ons.

    By this time, I’d already started nurturing an idea for a new blog that came to me the previous day.  I’ll not share the details now, but suffice to say it involves food.  I was excited to hear about blog microformats at the end of the workshop and I’ll definitely be seeking out recipe microformat templates for the new project.

    After lunch, I test drove a Saturn Sky.  GM was a major sponsor of the conference and they really did a great job of making information about their cars available without being pushy.  Their gift bag contained a pair of Crabtree & Evelyn body products and they also gave away a thumb drive in the main goodie bag.  A Saturn test drive scored you an additional bag containing a leather CD holder, the latest Bon Jovi CD and a t-shirt.

    I started out in the Audience Building workshop, but stepped away when Rita from Surrender, Dorothy called to say that she’d arrived.  I ended up missing the next half of the workshop session, so I spent time checking out the other sponsors’ displays.

    I was particularly taken with Kaboodle, a bookmarking site that’s sort of a cross between del.icio.us and Flickr.  Below you’ll see the Kaboodle "badge" I made out of all my favorite t-shirt site links.  Click through it, hit "I like this page" on the upper right and you’ll be giving me a chance to win their Blogher giveway.

    Cool T-Shirts

    www.kaboodle.com

    After the break, I went to the Tagging, Tracking & Structured Blogging workshop.  In case you’re wondering how tag-compliant Blogher attendees are, just check the "Blogher06" tag on Flickr and Technorati.  I think we get it.

    After the last workshop, I met up with Rita, and Cagey from Rancid Raves.  Cagey brought her son, Arun, and her mom, and we all went to the hotel’s restaurant for dinner.  After that, it was on to the Blogher cocktail party by the pool, which prominently featured complimentary wine from Folie a Deux winery.

    It didn’t take long before everyone was in a festive mood.  My evening went like this:  drink wine, talk to people, repeat.  I suspected it was time to switch to soft drinks when I found myself chatting with Karl and cussing like a sailor for no particular reason.

    I didn’t cut back quite soon enough, though.  Later, I was sitting on the edge of the pool talking to Rita with my jeans rolled up and my feet in the water.  At some point, I decided there was no reason I shouldn’t just jump in.  Let me point out that I wasn’t being completely reckless:  I took off my conference badge and emptied my pockets first.  Then I dove in, jeans, long-sleeved t-shirt and all.

    The water was delightfully warm compared to the chilly evening air, so I stayed in the pool for quite some time while maintaining conversations with the many people poolside who declined to follow my lead.  Eventually, I climbed out and squish, squish, squished my way back to my room to go to sleep.