Average Jane Ponders Family Influences

Today I bought my daily Red Bull from the vending machine at work and as I rinsed off the top under the sink and carefully dried it off with a paper towel, I realized that I’d picked up that finicky habit from my dad.  I could almost hear him saying, "You don’t know where it’s been."

Of course, family members influence us in lots of ways that become so blended into our everyday behavior that it’s difficult to trace their origins.

When I make a bed, I put the fitted sheet over the mattress starting with one lower corner, then move on to the upper corner that’s diagonal from it, for no other reason than it’s the way my mother taught me to do it.

I have no doubt that I still tie my shoes exactly the way my aunt and her cousin taught me to when I was a child.

I can’t have even a brief conversation with my sister without picking
up her speech patterns and certain phrases.  I’m sure that’s why we
sound so much alike on the phone – to the extent that we used to trade
the phone back and forth as teenagers to fool each others’ boyfriends.

How are influences from your family members still reflected in the way you do things today?

Comments

7 responses to “Average Jane Ponders Family Influences”

  1. me Avatar

    I can’t make a bed without hospital corners, courtesy of my mother. I’ve tried, and literally can’t. I end up getting up in the middle of the night to tuck in the corners.

  2. Daisy Avatar

    I hate having the sheets tucked in! I think as I get older though I’m starting to do things (and appreciate more) the way my mother did them. Just wish I had her skill in pastry making 🙁

  3. June Avatar
    June

    When we first got married, my husband and I had a disagreement about the “right” way to put the toilet paper on the roll – with the end coming over the top or from underneath. Obviously my family had done it one way and his had done it the other so it was a big discussion!

  4. Jane Avatar

    Ah yes, the toilet paper issue. I don’t think my husband notices or cares which way it goes (if he puts a new roll on at all). I, on the other hand, know that the loose end must come over the top, not hang down from below!

  5. Goofy Girl Avatar

    I always make real mashed potatoes whenever I make chili. Then you put a scoop of both in one bowl, so each bite has a little potato with chili. Yummy. I’ve converted many people to this strange ritual!

  6. blaugra Avatar

    Hospital corners on the bed habit from mom, definitely! I still do that. And I make sure to dust the baseboards in my house like she did, which my husband doesn’t understand. My dad makes lists or agendas for everything, and he’s retired, so even our lunch dates have agendas. I’ve picked this habit up from him, but, hopefully I won’t ever set a written agenda for lunch with friends!

  7. Goofy Girl Avatar

    Okay, I have to ask….what are hospital corners???

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